Obituary: Shirley McQuade, 92

Shirley McQuade, 92 of Whitewater, passed away on Tuesday, November 23rd, 2021. She was born on December 26, 1928 to Roland and Maude (Lezotte) Hartel in Fort Atkinson, Wisconsin. She graduated from Fort Atkinson High School in 1946 and married Maurice McQuade on November 4, 1950. They made a home and raised three daughters in Whitewater. She worked as a receptionist at Fairhaven for fifteen years. In 1988 she retired to enjoy her grandchildren and to travel.

She is survived by three daughters, Colleen (Jack) Rades, Ann (John) Kaufelt, and Pat Winner, five grandchildren, Genevieve (Scott Fitzsimmon) Rades, Jake (Kira) Rades, Jillian (Seth) Robinson, Danielle (Mike) Wisneski, and Cassandra Winner, and three great grandchildren Adeline and Theodore Robinson and Alexandra Rades. She is also survived by one sister-in-law, Mary (Dick) Thayer and many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents and her sisters Arvella (Jerry) Humbach and Adeline (Ed) Garthwait. Her husband Maurice died April 18, 2005.

Her final days were spent at Rainbow Hospice in Johnson Creek where, in her words, they treated her like a queen. She had time to enjoy flowers and cards and share stories with friends and family. She continued to charm those around her up to the end. We will all miss her great sense of humor, beautiful smile, warm heart and comforting hugs.

Special thanks go to those at Fairhaven who assisted in her transition from Fairhaven to Rainbow Hospice, all the staff at Rainbow Hospice for their end-of-life care and support, and her massage therapist who was critical in maintaining her quality of life in her final years. Shirley requested that those who wish to celebrate her life feel free to do so at a time and in a manner and place that is convenient and meaningful for them.

Nitardy Funeral Home in Whitewater is assisting the family. A funeral mass in her honor will be celebrated on Friday, December 3rd at noon at St Patrick Catholic Church, 1225 W Main, Whitewater. Visitation will be at the church the hour prior to the service. Due to COVID concerns, the family requests that masks be worn. The service will be streamed live and archived on the Nitardy Funeral Home site. Luncheon will follow at Jessica’s Family Restaurant, 140 W Main, Whitewater.

In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made in Shirley’s name to Rainbow Hospice.

Online condolences can be made at www.nitardyfuneralhome.com

Obituary: Jane L. Becker, 85

Jane L. Becker, 85, of Whitewater, Wisconsin passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 18th, 2021, surrounded by her family and loved ones. Jane was born on December 3rd, 1935, in Elmhurst, Illinois to Alice Francis (Lefley) and Maurice Carver Turner. Jane graduated from Elmhurst High School in 1953, and then attended Indiana University, Bloomington where she earned a degree in Home Economics and was a member of Alpha Chi Omega Sorority and on the Women’s Golf team.

Jane taught at Whitewater High School for a brief time and enjoyed spending time on Lauderdale Lakes where she met and married Alvin George Becker of Palmyra in 1959. Jane and Al had four children, six grandchildren, two great-grandchildren, and celebrated 54 years of marriage.

Jane was a devoted and wise mother and wife, with a great sense of humor, who was both fun and strict at the same time. She and Al enjoyed time spent between Whitewater, Door County, Florida and traveling to various places to visit family and friends. She was very creative and over the years perfected many passions; her garden, canning (jams, pickles, beets, and more…), a salad dressing business, stained glass artwork, photography though 4-H, selling real estate and most of all her FAMOUS English Toffee, which she loved to share with friends, family and church.

Jane’s greatest love was for her family whom she was always very proud of. She will be missed deeply by her children; Dan (Jane) Becker of Whitewater, WI, Nancy (Bob) Becker/Maerz of Newport Beach, CA, Karin (Jeff) Smith of Scottsdale, AZ, her grandchildren; Casey (Benny) Rocha, Cody (Kari) Becker, Chad (Teegan) Becker, Connor Pryce Maerz, Jacob and Stephanie Smith, and her great-grandchildren, Jayce and Emelia Rocha. Jane is further survived by her brother and sister-in-law, John and Judy Turner of Ephraim, WI, sister-in-law Alice Smith of Palmyra, WI, and cousins, nieces, and nephews.

Jane is reunited in heaven with her daughter Patricia Anne, husband Alvin, and her parents.

Jane’s humor, wisdom, laughter, deviled eggs, and toffee will live in our hearts forever. She will be missed but not forgotten by all those who knew and loved her.

It was Jane’s wish to rest in peace at Hillside Cemetery in Palmyra, Wisconsin beside her daughter and husband. No service is planned at this time, as friends and family will gather to celebrate Jane’s life at a later date.

Memorials may be made to Palmyra United Methodist Church, Fairhaven Senior Services in Whitewater, or Rainbow Hospice in Jefferson. The family would like to give special thanks to the staff at Fairhaven and Rainbow Hospice for their exceptional care of Jane.

Nitardy Funeral Home is assisting the family with arrangements. Online condolences can be made at www.nitardyfuneralhome.com

Obituary: Kenneth Kayser, 84

Kenneth Kayser, 84, passed away November 18th at home in Whitewater with his wife, Barb, by his side. He was born February 24th, 1937, in West Allis, Wisconsin to Norman and Roberta (Marshall) Kayser.

Kenneth married the love of his life, Barbara (Boyd), in 1976. Together, they traveled and, in retirement, enjoyed winters in Gulf Shores, Alabama. Ken was self-employed most of his career, retiring from and selling J&K Wholesale Meats. He was a kind and gentle Christian man who enjoyed his family and many lifelong friends. His nickname was “Coach,” as he loved sports and played softball, baseball, basketball, and tennis. He enjoyed watching sports too and cheering on the Badgers, Brewers and Green Bay Packers.

He is survived by his loving wife, Barb; brothers Robert (Carole), Roger (Helen), David (Sharon); and sister, Norma Jean Prucha (Bill); as well as many nieces and nephews. He loved them all. He was preceded in death by his parents and sister-in-law Caroline.

No service is planned at this time. At a later date, family and friends will gather to celebrate Ken’s life.

Memorials may be made to Agrace Hospice, whose staff provided amazing and compassionate care.

Obituary: Patrick Cromwell, 50

Patrick Cromwell, age 50, passed away on Monday, November 15, 2021, at Fort Memorial Hospital surrounded by loved ones.  He was born in Waukesha on August 27, 1971, the son of Carol Cromwell.  He graduated from Illinois Valley High School.  

Patrick is survived by his “Old Lady,” Amanda Pete; 6 children: Curtis Schlotzhauer, Seaira Blackstone, Carina Cromwell, Calila Cromwell, Tristin Pete, and Riley Pete; 4 granddaughters: Jessica, Aura, Sabina, and Sophia; brother, Terry Cromwell; many nieces and nephews; and many other family and friends.  He was preceded in death by his mother; brother, Tim Cromwell; and uncles: Clark Cromwell, Dean Cromwell, and Jerry  Cromwell.  

A memorial service will be held at 4:00 p.m. on Thursday, November 18, 2021, at SCHNEIDER FUNERAL HOME & CREMATORY. A visitation will be held from 3:00 p.m. until the time of the service at the FUNERAL HOME. “Regulators Mount Up.” For online condolences and guestbook, please visit: www.schneiderfuneraldirectors.com.

Obituary: Wendell Dean Swift, 97

Wendell Dean Swift was born on May 25, 1924, in Singapore Malaysia, and passed away at the age of 97 on Veterans’ Day, November 11, 2021, at Fairhaven Senior Living Center, Whitewater, WI. A memorial service was held at Fairhaven November 15, 2021, for family, residents, and staff, with plans for a Celebration of Life to be held summer 2022 for family and friends.

During WWII, Wendell served in the U. S. Navy, Fleet Air Wing 15, Headquarters Squadron, the North African Theater; then at the Naval Air Station, Sanford, FL.

Following military discharge, Wendell married his sweetheart Barbara Owens, July 12, 1946. In 2016, they celebrated 70 years of marriage!

In the early years of their marriage, Wendell tried his hand at farming. Failing that, he took the skill he learned in the Navy and worked in the aviation industry, first with Boeing in Wichita, KS, then at the U.S. Naval Air Station, Glenview, IL. For the next 26 years, he worked in various capacities in support of the off-road heavy equipment industry. In 1983 he was invited to China for three weeks to teach how to maintain the big mining equipment the Chinese were purchasing. He wrote a service manual to accompany him. He retired in December 1985 as Service Manager of the Construction Machinery Division of Bucyrus-Erie Company, after assisting in closing the last CMD manufacturing plant located in Erie, PA.

Wendell graduated high school in Waukesha, WI. During his career he completed a four-year night course in Business Management at Lake Forest College, Lake Forest IL, as well as numerous trade and professional training courses.

He held active memberships in the Methodist Church at each place of residence, serving in choirs and on various committees. Presently Wendell was a member of the First United Methodist Church, Whitewater, WI.

He was an active volunteer in many capacities, including Boy Scouts in IL; the Florida Military Aviation Museum; JAARS, the Jungle Aviation and Radio Service in N.C.; and Meals-on-Wheels in WI.

Wendell is survived by sister-in-law Haruye Swift of Nanuet, NY; sons Jack (Pat) Swift of Big Rock IL, son Larry (Beverly) of Round Rock, TX, daughter-in-law Maureen (Robert) Swift of Chicago, IL, and Margaret Swift of Cleveland, OH, as well as 5 grandchildren, 6 great grandsons, and many beloved nieces and nephews.

He is preceded in death by his wife of 70 years, Barbara Owens Swift; brothers Wilbur (Betty) Swift of West Bend, WI; Lawrence (Haruye) Swift of Nanuet, NY; sisters Lorinne (Allan) Muhasky of Whitewater, WI, and Lucille Nokes of Fort Atkinson, WI; son Robert (Maureen) Swift of Chicago, IL; and grandsons Nathan Rey Swift Rutledge of Cleveland, OH and Blain Owen Swift of Hinckley, IL.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks memorial donations be made to The First United Methodist Church or Fairhaven Senior Services, both of Whitewater, WI.

Mr. & Mrs. Wally McDonell Celebrating 40th Wedding Anniversary

Mr. & Mrs. Wally McDonell will celebrate their 40th wedding anniversary on November 21, 2021. Kimberlee Griffin and Wallace McDonell were married at St. Luke’s Lutheran Church in Waukesha, Wisconsin. Reverend William Genzler officiated the 4 p.m. candle light ceremony. The McDonells have two children, Rachel Stelzer (Chris) of Phoenix, Arizona and Jonathan McDonell (Melissa) of Whitewater, Wisconsin. The couple will mark the occasion with a celebratory family trip to Kauai, Hawaii in March 2022.

Obituary: Terry Harlan Ostermeier, 84

Terry Harlan Ostermeier, 84, passed away at St. Mary’s Hospital in Janesville, Wisconsin on November 10, 2021 after a brief illness.

Terry was born on April 15, 1937 in New London, Wisconsin to George and Virginia (Dexter) Ostermeier and graduated New London High School in 1955.

He received his Bachelor of Science in Secondary Education from UW-Oshkosh in 1959 with majors in speech and history, his Master’s in speech from Marquette University in 1961, and his Ph.D. in communication from Michigan State University in 1966.

Terry married Arlene Louise Bjorngaard on May 9, 1964 in East Lansing, Michigan. Arlene and Terry moved to Whitewater, Wisconsin in July 1967 where they built a house in the country on a 20-acre woodlot.

Terry taught at Marquette, Michigan State, and State University of New York at Buffalo before moving to Whitewater, where he taught at UW-Whitewater for 33 years and served as Chair of the Communication Department from 1968-1988. He was one of the first professors in the state of Wisconsin to introduce and teach college courses in intercultural communication and an advanced course in listening.

Terry authored the book “A History of Speech at a Wisconsin Public University (Whitewater) 1868-1998,” his research was cited in books, and he had articles published in communication journals. Terry received the Wisconsin Communication Association Outstanding College Teaching Award in 1995 and the College of Arts and Communication Research Award in 1998.

Terry was a founding member of the International Listening Association in 1986. He was also a member of the Speech Communication Association, Pi Kappa Delta (forensics honorary), Phi Kappa Phi (education honorary), the Mayflower Society, and Founders and Patriots of America among other organizations.

His hobbies included genealogy, cooking, gardening, and traveling the world with Arlene.

Terry was preceded in death by his wife Arlene, father George, and mother Virginia. He is survived by sons Marc (Elissa Zurbuchen) and Eric (Melanie Burns), granddaughters Brita and Sara Ostermeier, sisters Judi Krablien, Boni Otto, and Kris Seefeldt, brother-in-law Pervin Bjorngaard (Lois), and sister-in-law Eileen Bjorngaard.

Terry was a member of St. Patrick Parish in Whitewater, Wisconsin. Burial will be held in the Church’s Calvary Cemetery in Whitewater.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Parkinson’s Foundation, 200 Southeast 1st Street, Suite 800, Miami, FL 33131 (www.parkinson.org).

Nitardy Funeral Home is assisting the family with arrangements.

Obituary: Tonia J. Eppers, 47

Tonia J. Eppers, age 47, of Whitewater, died on Saturday, November 6, 2021, in her home. She was born in Edgerton on April 29, 1974, the daughter of Michael and Shirley (Vaught) Dooley. She was a 1992 graduate of Elkhorn High School. She received her Master’s Degree from UW Whitewater in Speech Therapy in 2013. Tonia worked as a Speech Therapist at Kennedy Elementary for the Janesville School District. She loved her job and working with her students and her co-workers. Tonia married Jeffrey J. Eppers on February 11, 2006, in Whitewater. She was a former member of the Army Reserves, in which her unit was activated multiple times. She immensely enjoyed reading, going for hikes and spending time with family. Most of all, she was the best Mom ever!

Tonia is survived by her husband, Jeff; 2 daughters; Samantha LaBreche and Natalie LaBreche both of Whitewater; step-son, Keith Eppers of Liberty Lake, WA; mother, Shirley Dooley of Elkhorn; brother, Nathan Dooley of Elkhorn; sister, Lisa (Mel) Bjurstrom of Burlington; and many nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins and extended family and friends. She was preceded in death by her father, Michael Dooley.

A Funeral Service will be held at 4:00 p.m. on Friday, November 12, 2021, at APFEL EHLERT FUNERAL HOME, Edgerton. Visitation will take place on Friday from 2:00 p.m. until the time of service at the funeral home. Burial will be at a later date at Evergreen Cemetery. Memorials may be made to Carbone Cancer Center, 600 Highland Ave, MC 9945, Madison, WI 53792. For on-line condolences: www.apfelfuneral.com

Obituary: Bob Wulfkuhle, 93

Bob Wulfkuhle passed away on Friday, November 5, 2021, at Fairhaven Senior Services.

Robert Lloyd Wulfkuhle, was born on October 6th, 1928, in Lawrence, Kansas to Gustav and Lillian (Lentz) Wulfkuhle. Robert, in Lawrence or Bob in Illinois or Wisconsin, was a student of the Lawrence Public School System, attending Woodlawn Middle School and Lawrence Memorial High School, which was built in memory of the Lawrence servicemen lost in World War I.

During his school years, Bob worked at Kroger’s Grocery Store during the winter and at his Uncle Alfred’s, the Alfred Heck and Sons farm during the spring, summer, and fall. Bob started working for the Hecks when he was in 5th grade. He was close to the family, living on the farm during the busy seasons — in fact, Alfred and Emma Heck, and their sons, Arthur and Walter, always treated Bob as part of their family. Bob credited the Hecks with teaching him about the importance of working hard and with honesty to accomplish one’s goals. He learned the value of maintaining a clean and neat farm, as demonstrated by his large, productive garden and immaculate lawns. Bob was often teased by his friends and neighbors about his lawn and garden, receiving a lighted helmet to mow his lawn at night from some work friends and a large picture of dandelions – which were never allowed to grace his yard– from his good neighbors and friends, Rollie and Margaret Stortz.

Bob attended Kansas State University in Manhattan, Kansas, working his way through college at the Lawrence Sanitary Dairy during the summer and at Kansas State University’s Creamery during the school year. He graduated in June of 1951 and was on a train the next day to begin boot camp for the Navy. Bob worked hard and served as the Boot Chief Petty Officer, receiving the American Spirit Award in recognition for his performance as the top student from his boot camp class. Bob served as an independent duty hospital corpsman for four years in the USS Baltimore. The Baltimore completed tours in the Atlantic and Pacific Oceans, took an admiral on a goodwill tour of the Scandinavian countries, and represented the United States during the Naval Review for the Coronation of Queen Elizabeth II.

Honorably discharged from the Navy, Bob worked for the Department of Agriculture in Kansas City as an inspector and chemist. Bob was then asked to run the Arkansas City Coop, a large creamery in southeastern Kansas. He then moved to Hawthorn Mellody in Kansas City before transferring to the Hawthorn Mellody plant in Whitewater, WI. While working in Whitewater, Bob met and married his wife of 57 years, Stratewula (Sug) Kehias, an associate professor at UW-Whitewater. Bob took a job with Creamery Packaging in Chicago, IL as a Sales Engineer and moved to Chicagoland. Upon promotion to the Assistant to the President, Bob was transferred to the Lake Mills, WI plant and moved his family to Fort Atkinson, WI. Bob took a position with Hartel Manufacturing in Fort Atkinson, WI, in 1980. He worked for Hartel’s for 14 years, serving as the Vice President of Sales and Marketing, retiring in 1994.

Bob strongly believed in a life of service. While a member of Trinity English Lutheran Church in Fort Atkinson, Bob served on several church councils, sang in the choir, and could frequently be seen on the church grounds painting or otherwise helping to maintain the landscape. He volunteered at the Fort Memorial Hospital, completing 7,833 hours. He received the Volunteer of the Year award as well as a Life membership in the Volunteer department. Bob assisted at the National Dairy Shrine at the Hoard Museum in Fort Atkinson, WI, where he was awarded the E Award by the National Dairy Shrine. Bob was very active in the Kiwanis International organization. He joined Kiwanis in 1956 in Kansas. In Fort Atkinson, he served as the President of the club several times, chaired several committees, and served on the Board. He completed a one-year term as the Lieutenant Governor and then became a District Board Member. He was the first member of the Fort Atkinson Kiwanis organization to receive the George F. Hixson Fellowship, which recognizes members who contribute significantly to Kiwanis’s history of generosity. While in the Whitewater Kiwanis organization in his later life, he served on the youth committee and helped oversee the Shoe Project, providing shoes for disadvantaged students in the Whitewater Elementary school system. In 2021, the Whitewater Kiwanis club awarded Bob an Honorary Membership in recognition for his many years of service.

Bob was preceded in death by his parents, Gus and Lillian (Lentz) Wulfkuhle, his older sister, Elizabeth Wulfkuhle, who died in infancy, and his wife of 57 years, Sug. He is survived by his son, Gus (Cathy) Wulfkuhle, Geneva, IL; daughter Trianna (Stephen) Warkentin, Spring, TX, and four grandchildren, Emily and Sam Wulfkuhle, and Daniel and Kylie Warkentin.

A memorial service to celebrate Bob’s life will be held at First English Lutheran Church in Whitewater, WI on Saturday, November 20 at 11:00 a.m., with visitation starting at 9:30 a.m. Masks will be required during the memorial service. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorials to Heart Prairie Lutheran Church care of First English Lutheran Church, 401 W. Main St., Whitewater, WI, 53190, please put Heart Prairie Church in the memo line or to the Whitewater Aquatic Center, Friends of the Whitewater Aquatic and Fitness Center, PO Box 509, Whitewater, WI 53190 or friendsofwac@gmail.com.

Bob’s family wishes to recognize and thank the staff of the second-floor skilled nursing unit at Fairhaven for their dedication and thoughtful care in these trying times.

Nitardy Funeral Home is assisting the family with arrangements. Online condolences can be made at www.nitardyfuneralhome.com

Robert Peter Frawley, 91, passed away on Thursday, November 5, 2020 (UPDATED with arrangements)

Robert Peter Frawley, 91, Whitewater passed away on Thursday, November 5, 2020 at Rainbow Hospice Inpatient Center in Johnson Creek, WI.

Bob was born on March 28, 1929 in West Allis, WI to John and Freida (Pfeiffer) Frawley. He was a graduate of Whitewater High School. Bob served his country in the United States Army in Korea during the Korean Conflict. On August 22, 1953 he married Louise Mammina at St. Williams Church in Chicago, IL. Bob owned and operated Tri-State Motor Express for 30 years. He also worked as a manager for Dairy Star Ice Cream Emporium in Lincolnwood, IL. He and Louise and their six children lived in Chicago. Bob and Louise moved to Whitewater in 2006. Bob enjoyed woodworking and decorating. He was a member of St. Patrick Catholic Church, Whitewater.

He is survived by his wife, Louise; children Mary (Jim) Kersten, Glenview, IL, John Frawley, Whitewater, Michael (Sheri) Frawley, Mesa, AZ ; daughter-in-law Amy Frawley, Ohio; 13 grandchildren; 3 great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents; children Thomas, Theresa and Julia Frawley; brothers Raymond Pfeiffer, John H. Frawley; sisters, Margaret Fuhs and Rosebud Truman.

A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, November 12, 2021 at 12:00 P.M. at St. Patrick Catholic Church, Whitewater, WI. Friends may call after 11:00 A.M. on Friday at the church until the time of the Mass.

Burial will follow in the Calvary Cemetery in Whitewater, WI.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Whitewater Food Pantry or to Bethel House.

Nitardy Funeral Home, Whitewater is assisting the family. Online condolences may be given to the family at www.nitardyfuneralhome.com