UW-W Student Athlete Dies “Playing the game he loved” (Updated with comments by Coach Miller)

Source: UW-W Athletics

UW-Whitewater Athletics on July 25 announced via Twitter that they are mourning the loss of student-athlete Derek Gray, indicating he passed away “playing the game he loved.”

Gray played two seasons with the Warhawks and was named a first team All-Wisconsin Intercollegiate Athletic Conference honoree this past season. He was also a standout player during his high school career at Madison La Follette.

Gray, a psychology major, passed away unexpectedly on July 24, 2022. 

The UW-Whitewater flag will fly at half-staff on Friday, July 29, 2022, in Derek’s memory. 

Update 7/27/22: Comments from Coach Pat Miller may be found in this article on Fox47 here.

This Week’s City & School Board Meetings (Updated: Common Council Special Mtg. with Fire Dept.)

Police and Fire Commission Special Session – Monday @ 6:00 p.m.
Agenda: Nominations And Potential Approval Of Fire Department
Command Staff Positions and Interview Of Chief Of Police Candidate
City of Whitewater Municipal Building
Community Room- First Floor
312 W. Whitewater St.
This will be an IN PERSON MEETING as well as a VIRTUAL MEETING
Please join my meeting from your computer, tablet or smartphone.
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Whitewater Unified School District School Board – Monday @ 6:00 p.m. (Adjourn to closed session)
Whitewater High School Library
534 South Elizabeth Street
Agenda includes Resolution Providing for a Referendum Election on the Question of the Approval of a Resolution Authorizing the School District Budget to Exceed Revenue Limit by $4,400,000 Per Year for Four Years for Non-Recurring Purposes 

6:00 p.m. via Zoom Online

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7:00 p.m. via Zoom Online (Open Session)

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City of Whitewater Finance Committee – Tuesday @ 4:30 p.m.
Agenda includes Review Fire/EMS Transition Into Municipal Department
City of Whitewater Municipal Building
City Manager’s Conference Room – 2nd Floor
312 W. Whitewater St.
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Community Development Authority Board of Directors – Thursday @ 5:30 p.m.
AGENDA
Location: Municipal Building – Community Room 1st Floor
312 W. Whitewater St.
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Citizens are welcome (and encouraged) to join us via computer, smart phone or telephone.
Citizen participation is welcome during topic discussion periods.
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City of Whitewater Common Council Special Meeting with Whitewater Fire Dept., Inc.Thursday @ 6:30 p.m.
Agenda includes Update on Financial Outlook for City as it relates to adoption of
Agreement with Whitewater Fire Dept., Inc. to provide fire and rescue
services, followed by closed and open session Item to be Discussed: Agreement between City of Whitewater and
the Whitewater Fire Department, Inc., relating to fire and rescue services.
City of Whitewater Municipal Building – Community Room
312 W. Whitewater St.
This will be an IN PERSON and a VIRTUAL MEETING. Citizens are welcome (and encouraged) to join us via computer, smart phone, or telephone. Citizen participation is welcome during topic discussion periods.

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Police & Fire Commission Conditionally Approves Appointment of Daniel A. Meyer as Police Chief

Daniel A. Meyer (Photo credit: The Gazette)

By Lynn Binnie
Whitewater Banner volunteer staff
whitewaterbanner@gmail.com

At a special meeting on July 25 the City of Whitewater Police and Fire Commission unanimously approved the appointment of Daniel “Dan” A. Meyer as police chief, subject to negotiation of salary and benefits with city staff and the approval of the Common Council. Per state statute, the hiring of a police chief is the responsibility of the Police & Fire Commission; however, the Common Council has sole responsibility for approving significant financial matters such as wages. Meyer is currently the deputy chief and has been acting chief since Aaron Raap, who had served as chief since June, 2018, was placed on administrative leave in December, 2021. Raap resigned and retired effective June 30, 2022.

Meyer graduated Summa Cum Laude in 2009 from UW-Platteville with a B.S. in Criminal Justice, with minors in psychology and Spanish. There he was a four year letter winner in track and field. The same year he graduated from the Wisconsin Law Enforcement Academy. Meyer joined the Whitewater Police Department as a patrol officer in January of 2010. He served as a detective from January 2013 to August, 2014. Meyer then rose through the ranks as follows: Detective Sergeant, August, 2014; Detective Lieutenant, September, 2015; Captain, November, 2015, and Deputy Chief, April, 2019.

Meyer earned an M.S. in Public Administration, with a criminology and criminal justice specialization from University of Nebraska – Omaha in 2019.

He was honorably discharged from the U.S. Coast Guard Reserve in 2020 after eight years of service.

In his current position Meyer is responsible for a wide range of roles, including direct supervision of the captain and the support services manager and oversight of 35 employees. He is the public information officer, manages critical incidents and major events, and coordinates internal and citizen complaint investigations. He has also managed the accreditation process. Last year the department received its seventh accreditation from the Wisconsin Law Enforcement Accreditation Group. He is currently vice president of the Wisconsin Police Accreditation Coalition.

Obituary: Marjorie Ann Triebold (Schonath), 85

Marjorie Ann Triebold (Schonath) went to her eternal home on July 22, 2022. Marge was born on
January 6, 1937, to John and Martha (Hoppe) Schonath in Whitewater, Wisconsin. She graduated from Whitewater City High School in 1954 and then went on to graduate from UW-Whitewater in 1958 with a degree in kindergarten/ primary education. While at UW, Marge earned the honor of being listed in Who’s Who in American Universities and Colleges. She was also affiliated with Theta Sigma Upsilon Sorority and Kappa Delta Pi honorary fraternity.

Marge married Don Triebold on August 9, 1958. They then moved to Manitowoc, Wisconsin where Don taught business education classes at Manitowoc High, and Marge taught morning and afternoon
kindergarten classes with thirty plus students in each class.

Their marriage was blessed with three sons; Eric (Lynne), Mark (Carrie), and Kurt (Julia). Grandchildren
include Ryan (Theresa), Sarah (Morgan), Taylor (Jackie), Emily (Nathan), Madelaine, Hayden, and Payton.
Great-granddaughters are Oliani (Ani) and Charlotte.

Marge was a lifelong member of the United Methodist Church where she taught Sunday school and sang
in church choirs for over 65 years. She was a very active member of Junior Women, the Whitewater
Federation of Women’s Clubs, the PEO Sisterhood and Alpha Club in Whitewater where she held many
offices and took the opportunity to attend national conventions. She was also an enthusiastic supporter
of UW-Whitewater, volunteering on the Cultural Affairs Committee. Marge traveled most of
southeastern Wisconsin to promote Young Auditorium and the programs designed for school age
children.

For many years, Marge also performed secretarial responsibilities for Triebold Imp’t Inc. in Whitewater.
Marge’s hobbies included photography, scrapbooking, traveling in Europe, vacations in the United
States, coin collecting, antiques, and flowers. She especially enjoyed spending time at their getaway on
Gasparilla Island, Florida.

Marge loved people, and will be remembered for her warm engaging smile, blue eyes, and not having a
hair out of place. She was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She will be
missed and remembered by all who knew her.

Visitation will be July 29, 2022, at the First United Methodist Church, 145 S. Prairie Street, Whitewater, at
9:30 a.m. until the time of the service at 11:00 a.m. Interment will follow at Hillside Cemetery.

The family would like to extend special thanks to Stacy Gransee and Patty Terpley for their loving, tender
care of Marge throughout her illness. Also, thanks to Rainbow Hospice and their nursing staff for their
expertise in caring for the elderly.

Memorials may be given in Marge’s memory to the First United Methodist Church and to Rainbow
Hospice
.

Nitardy Funeral Home is assisting the family. Condolences may be made at
www.nitardyfuneralhome.com

Obituary: Mary Carla (Carla) Heimerl, (nee Abbot), 90

On Tuesday, July 19, 2022, Mary Carla (Carla) Heimerl, (nee Abbot) formerly from Evansville, passed away peacefully at her daughter’s home in Whitewater at the age of 90.

Carla was born on August 14, 1931 in Fremont, Ohio. She was lovingly raised by Gertrude Abel in Pittsburgh, PA and Kansas City, MO and by her legal guardian, Charles Guenther. Carla was valedictorian of her graduating class at Notre Dame de Sion High School in Kansas City, MO.

She met Robert Heimerl at Marquette University where they were both students. They were married on August 18, 1951 and made their home in Evansville, WI.  Together they raised two sons, Chris and Kim and three daughters, Diane, Carla, and Susan.

When Susie was in first grade, Carla returned to college at UW-Madison completing a degree in English. After teaching for a couple of years she returned to school and received a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology.  Carla worked for twenty years at the UW-Madison counseling older adults returning to school, just as she had.  She retired as Director of the Office of Continuing Education.

Carla loved books and cherished gifting them and reading to her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She was a gracious hostess who thoroughly enjoyed entertaining. Her true joy was her family. As an only child she longed for a big family. Her wish was realized in her large, loud, and loving family. She was very proud of them, especially that they all valued a college education as much as she did.

Carla was preceded in death by her beloved “parents” Gertrude Abel and Charles Guenther, husband of 66 years Bob, his parents, an infant daughter, Anne Marie, a grandson, Nicholas Heimerl, a brother in-law and a niece.

Carla is survived by her son Chris (Sandy) Heimerl and their two children, Anna (Roylee) Luna and Charles (Amy) Heimerl; her daughter Diane (Stan) Zweifel and their children, Saree (Steve) Solberg, Shannon Zweifel, Michael (Jenn) Zweifel and Mark (Ashley) Zweifel; her son Kim (Becky) Heimerl and their daughters, Thea (Ryan) Kurtz, Kate (Josh) Soholt, Erin (Jason) Breaker and Leah (Brad) Dushaw; daughter Carla (Bill) Skerbeck and their children, Bobby (Jamee) Skerbeck, Dustin (Cindy) Skerbeck and Carly (Jeff) Vertz; and daughter Susie (Tom) Kopp and their children, Kristopher (Jessie) Kopp, Adam (Jen) Kopp and Casey (Ashley) Kopp;  and almost 28 great-grandchildren, with one on the way. Carla is also survived by a sister-in-law, Carol Klein and three nieces.

A celebration of Carla’s life will be held on October 29th at 4:00 at Creekside Place, 102 Maple St., Evansville, WI. Carla would be grateful for gifts to Evansville Aware, The Evansville Fund,  Agrace or a charity of your choice. www.wardhurtley.com

Seniors in the Park Presents Drive My Car – Tuesday

Drive My Car (2021) | MUBI

“Drive My Car,” the 2022 Oscar winner for Best International Feature Film, will be shown, Tuesday, July 26, 1 p.m., at Seniors in the Park. 

(Drama) Unrated film; 2 hours, 59 minutes (2021). Japanese, shown with English subtitles. Oscar winner for Best International Feature Film 2022. A renowned stage actor and director learns to cope with his wife’s unexpected passing when he receives an offer to direct a production of “Uncle Vanya” at a drama festival in Hiroshima. A taciturn young woman is assigned to chauffeur him in his beloved red Saab 900 Turbo. The New York Times called this “a quiet masterpiece; considers grief, love, work and the soul-sustaining, life-shaping power of art.”

The Golden Years Derailed Part 3 – By Marcia James

Richard James in 2020 when a tree was dedicated in his honor in the University of Wisconsin – Whitewater’s prairie, the reconstruction of which he championed.


When we moved to Whitewater in 1978, we easily found resources such as grocery stores, hardware stores, our church, and our doctors. In the last five years, I have had to find new resources to help Rich and to protect our assets.

In 2015, Rich and I met with our lawyer and set up a trust. In 2019, Rich was treated at Fort Memorial Hospital for a hernia. The nurse on call suggested that I get an incapacitation letter from his general practitioner. His doctor, who was familiar with his case, agreed to write it and have another doctor sign off. This letter was given to the lawyer and the trust was changed to my having control.

The staff at Rich’s memory care location are involved in the community and connected to the Aging and Disability Resource Center (ADRC) that exists in each Wisconsin county. I talked with them as well as the Veterans Administration of Walworth County since Rich is a Vietnam veteran.  These agencies enable families to know what’s available to help them emotionally as well as financially.

Twice a month, a program called Rockin’ Respite occurs at the Living Word church in downtown Whitewater where caregivers can drop off their loved ones for activities and lunch.  The activity is held two Tuesdays a month from 9:30 a.m. until 3:30 p.m.  Masie can answer questions about respite care by emailing her at masieallie@yahoo.com.  Also a Memory Cafe social hour takes place at Whitewater’s Library; it is rotated among several libraries (Whitewater, Jefferson, Palmyra, and Fort Atkinson).  For more information, contact Suzanne at the Irvin L. Young Memorial Library—(262) 473-0530.  She also wanted me to share that with your library card, you can check out activity kits to keep your loved one occupied.  Helpful presentations about dementia can be found online, on YouTube and sometimes in person.  A nationally-known dementia trainer, popular and entertaining speaker Teepa Snow presented at Young Auditorium to an audience of about 400 in June. 


Finally I cannot say enough good things about hospice. After being approved by a doctor, Rich now has a new bed, a Broda wheelchair, a Hoyer lift, and a shower chair. Each week a nurse visits him and emails me her report. Also, an aide gives him a shower twice a week.  Medicare covers these expenses.

Thank you for letting me share how our idyllic retirement has been derailed by dementia.  During this time, you find out who your true friends are and how wonderful a community can be! Please contact me at jamesm@uww.edu if you want to continue the conversation.

-Marcia James

This article is submitted by Dementia Friendly Community Initiative, a program of Whitewater Seniors in the Park.  
https://www.whitewater-wi.gov/273/Seniors-In-the-Park

More resources for caregivers:
https://teepasnow.com/resources/pac-videos-about-dementia/
https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/memory-forgetfulness-and-aging-whats-normal-and-whats-not

Our Readers Share: Jeanine Fassl – Donating her first pint of blood towards her 21st gallon

Retired, local, American Red Cross (ARC) volunteer coordinator, Jeanine Fassl, began donating her 21st gallon of whole blood at the American Red Cross Blood Drive held Friday, July 22 at the Cravath Lakefront Center. She is seen here with the certificate and 20-gallon pin that honored her previous donation this past March.

Jeanine had been an active Red Cross Blood Drive volunteer since the Whitewater Jaycettes began assisting Arlene Newhouse, who then coordinated the drive. In 1979 Jeanine became Whitewater’s ARC local coordinator in charge of procuring up to 57 volunteers including nurses, EMTs, registrars, donor room aides, segmentors, canteen staff, churches to make and serve food and drivers to bring the collected blood up to the Madison Red Cross processing center. Serving with ARC was one of her passions, as she honored the memory of her mother, Clara, who passed away in 1979 from acute onset adult leukemia. Jeanine spent over 25 years with the local drive.

Human blood is one of the rare components of the body that cannot be duplicated in a lab. There is always a need, as someone gets a blood transfusion EVERY 3 MINUTES in this country! Please consider donating soon! Visit RedCrossBlood.org or call 1-800-RED CROSS (1-800-733-2767).

Our thanks to Jeanine Fassl for sharing this achievement and important request.

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Frosty Rock Challenge Community Benefit Event Scheduled for November 12

Fort HealthCare is hosting its tenth annual Frosty Rock Challenge event on Saturday, November 12, 2022. The event consists of an in-person 12k trail/road run, a 5k run/walk, a 1-mile Kids Run, and a virtual option for the 12k and 5k races. The race and festivities are being hosted at the Fort Atkinson High School (925 Lexington Blvd.) this year and will begin in the morning and wrap up by noon. In honor of Veterans Day on November 11th, veterans can participate in the run/walk for FREE this year.

New for 2022 is the Kiwanis club of Fort Atkinson will be partnering with Fort HealthCare and will be volunteering their time at the event. For each Frosty Rock registration, a portion will be donated back to the Kiwanis club towards local park improvement projects. Curt Polzin, Kiwanis Club member writes, “Our local Fort Atkinson Kiwanis Club is thrilled to be partnering with Fort HealthCare for this community run/walk event.  Kiwanis is a volunteer organization that is dedicated to improving the world one child and one community at a time.  All proceeds from this event will be going towards local park improvement projects.”

Lisa Jensen, Fort HealthCare Vice President of Nursing and Frosty Rock planning committee member, states, “Fort HealthCare is excited to be back in-person for the 2022 Frosty Rock Challenge, and this is a great way to promote wellness and create an opportunity to give back to the community. We have had so much success with this event in bringing people together of all ages and activity levels.”

Jensen adds, “The Frosty Rock Challenge gives people a fun reason to come out on a Saturday morning, get some exercise, enjoy camaraderie with friends, and support the local community. The employees of Fort HealthCare spend a lot of time planning this event and are very passionate about donating back to a local cause [Kiwanis] and honoring our Mission and Vision.”

Frosty Rock committee member and Community Health & Wellness Department Coordinator, Tiffany Pernat, notes, “The last two years of the Frosty Rock Challenge have been virtual due to the COVID-19 pandemic, and I’m looking forward to being able to offer participants the opportunity to race in-person for 2022, while also offering a virtual option too. This race gives purpose to participants and allows Fort HealthCare to continue working towards our vision of being the healthiest community in Wisconsin.

Pernat adds, “Every year there is a great staff of volunteers, sponsors and partners that help make this event a success. We are still reaching out to local groups and businesses to assist with different sponsorship opportunities. We are so grateful for the support this event receives and look forward to another successful year after the break we’ve had!”

For more information about the event or to register, visit FortHealthCare.com/FrostyRock.

Fort HealthCare is committed to improving the health and well-being of our communities, with a vision to be the healthiest community in Wisconsin. As the leading healthcare provider in the region, it is our goal to reach as many members of the community as possible with health and wellness messages, providing tools and resources to help individuals improve their health and quality of life, while collaborating with several partners to positively improve the population’s health overall on a long-term basis. For more information, visit FortHealthCare.com.